Its been quite a couple of weeks, which has felt more like a couple of months. Ups and downs; motivating and demotivating at times; peaks of energy and periods of procrastination. I can hardly believe its been only two weeks because of all the events. But the focus isn't really all the events in this post.
To give it some context, I got sick about 2 weeks ago. It wasn't as bad (or as normal) as it usually was: had a slight sore throat for a couple of days; then it developed in a bit of a runny & stuffy nose; then it kind of went back to a sore throat; and then kind of just drifted away. Prior to that, I was in a really rough period. I felt like I was finally close to my destination, but that wasn't the case (or at least that how it seems). With my back against a wall, I was holding onto a the smallest thread of hope. I'm a type of person that when the odds are 99% against me, I'll go for that 1% shot if I feel its worth it. And this 1% undoubtedly was worth it because...well I won't get into that either. But like I said, I felt it was my destination; and when things started to quickly collapse, I started losing hope, patience, and strength (both emotionally and mentally). And thankfully, that's when I got sick.
As I mentioned in my "Epiphany: Loyalty and 313" post, I have epiphanies when I get sick. And this was the perfect time for an epiphany. A much needed epiphany. The epiphany that came to me was that God always gives us an opportunity. An opportunity to start fresh; to move on & learn from the past; to have a bit of a new 'beginning'. As the saying goes, "out with the old, in with the new." Often, we are presented with opportunities for a fresh start; but we dwell so much on the past we don't see the exiting opportunities of the future. It reminds me of the following quote:
"When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us."
- Alexander Graham Bell
I also realized that I tend to have these "starting fresh" moments when I get sick. That doesn't mean that every time I get sick that these moments pop up; rather that when I'm at crossroads, they tend to pop up.
However, my thought process didn't stop there because that would be a very limited view. What's interesting is that when you sometimes really need to hear or read something to make you feel better or realize something, someway or another it gets presented to you. I mentioned before I felt hopelessness, loss of patience, and my strength diminishing. One thing I did was pray, and absolutely pray as hard as I ever had with the most sincerest, honest, and purest of intentions. And I gave myself a timeline where after a certain point, I'd leave it in God's hands. And when did that moment come where I left this situation in the Almighty's hands? Take a guess....(wait for it)....(wait for it)...right when I got sick. Funny how sometimes thing work out isn't it?
Going back to my thoughts and 'epiphany' moment; once I realized that I was given the opportunity for a fresh start, it made me realize that the Almighty will always help you find a way through any situation if you let Him in your life; and in each situation when a fresh start is presented, He is also giving you the opportunity to get closer to Him. This should always be the goal in life - to get as close to Him as we can. Continuing on though with my thought process - what happens when we closer to somebody? Its simple; we start to trust them. And that was the climax of my epiphany - to have complete reliance, trust and yaqeen (certainty) in the Almighty and what He has planned for me; i.e. Tawakkul.
And throughout the two weeks, it seems that there was so many tweets, posts, etc. with quotes or hadiths that were telling me that same message of Tawakkul (i.e. to have complete faith, trust, & reliance in the Almighty). A couple of my favourite hadiths were:
"Only Allah will grant you ease after your hardship." - Imam Ali (AS)
"Oh Allah; when I lose my hopes and plans, help me remember that your love is greater than my disappointments, and your plans for my life are better than my dreams." - Imam Ali (AS)
It needs to be kept in mind that if He brought you to it, He'll get you through it. He knows our full potential and what we're capable of handling; and He gives us this opportunity to get closer to Him. As it states in the Holy Quran, "On no soul doth Allah place a burden greater than it can bear." (Surah al-Baqarah; 2:286)
Even in the Holy Quran, Tawakkul is mentioned multiple times as a reminder to practice it. As it states, "And
whoever trusts in Allah, He is sufficient for him." (Surah at-Talaaq; 65:3)
There are also a few hadiths on Tawakkul as well and its importance. Here are two that really stand out to me:
"One, who prefers
to be considered from amongst the virtuous, should rely solely upon God." - Prophet Muhammad (SAW)
"One, who entrusts his work to God, will be
always at rest and will enjoy a happy life." - Imam Jafar as-Sadiq (AS)
With multiple reminders by God in the Holy Quran and by the multiple hadiths from the Ahlul Bayt (AS), Tawakkul needs to become a vital part of our lives. Not only does it help build our faith and give us an opportunity to get closer to the Almighty (SWT), but it also eases the burdens of stress on our lives to make our lives easier and happier. Now this doesn't mean that we just sit back & relax; we need to continue to work hard (and I speak to myself before I speak to others). Once we put in that effort through our actions & duas, then He'll help us through any & every situation that comes up in life.
I also did a little bit more reading into Tawakkul and noticed a link between it and Zuhd (i.e. asceticism). A person who practices Zuhd is known as a Zahid - which is my middle name. Its REALLY interesting how things work out, isn't it? Maybe that's why God blessed me with this epiphany as this crucial point in my life through those various posts, tweets, and reminders. Kind of like a full circle.
I'm thankful that getting sick helped me realized that; because once I did, it made me feel upbeat. It gave me a shift in perspective. It gave me a fresh start. It gave me more opportunities to get closer to Allah (SWT), which I'm hoping (and feeling) that I have. And most importantly, it gave me the epiphany that I much needed to remain patient and trust His plan for me.
As for my destination...who knows where it is. But I've left that up to the Almighty's. If that 1% chance of hope is to happen, then He'll make it happen. And if not, I trust His plan for me and that there is something better out there for me. He's already presented me with other opportunities so I know and I have complete yaqeen that I can rely on Him and His plan/will for me.
Saturday, 8 June 2013
Saturday, 18 May 2013
YMAA Leadership Retreat 2013 (Part 2)
Two weeks ago, I was able to re-visit one of the best experiences of my life and thus had another 'best experience' of my life. I was another opportunity to attend a leadership retreat for four days (like last year). I said it last year, and I'll say it again: what an incredible four days they were!
I was asked to play a different role this year, that of an Angel which had quite a few tasks. To sum it up though in one sentence, the role was to help in organizing the retreat itself. And like last year as well, there were a few challenges (albeit, somewhat different than last year). I also went in with two major thoughts/objectives:
1) How can I help others out as much as the retreat helped me last year?
2) How can I learn & develop my own skills this year?
The challenges started off from the get go and thankfully helped me in those two thoughts/objectives. The first two steps (and challenges) itself were to find participants and to fundraise for the retreat.
Finding potential participants wasn't too difficult; it was presenting to them the benefits & value of going. It made me heavily reflect about what I gained from the retreat and how it helped me to develop my own skills (some of the accomplishments are mentioned in my previous post). The method of talking to potential people as well really took me out of my comfort zone, which helped me develop my own skills. I'll be honest; I really don't like talking much on the phone and I tend to remain silent in person. However, I had to really break out of that prison I set on myself and thus allow myself to grow. I also got to use my normal methods to promote & recruit (i.e. Facebook), which was a lot of fun. I pushed as hard as I could on Facebook for people to fill registrations and gouge their interest. I'm not sure how many people I influenced, but I'm hoping that there was at least 1-2 participants I helped influence in coming.
The fundraising was another challenge that also really took me out of my comfort zone. I've never, ever, EVER done any sort of fundraising before. This whole process was a new learning experience for me. Thankfully, there was a lot of people who were willing to help me out once I presented to them how his retreat helped me out, what I hope to accomplish this year, and how their investment will develop the leaders of tomorrow. To all the people who helped: a major, major thank you! This retreat could not have happened without that help.
The rest of the challenges came closer towards the retreat, or at the retreat itself. One challenge that came about was one person who I had been talking to about the retreat having some unexpected obstacles popping up that could have potentially prevented them from coming. This allowed me to work on my first question/objective because I really, really, REALLY wanted that person to be able to make it. Alhamdulillah, that issue got resolved and the person was able to make it. I didn't do much (in my opinion); but I was able to connect with the right person to help get that issue resolved and with the generosity of people, the situation worked out.
Another challenge was the driving aspect. In my post last year, I mentioned how I had a huge fear of driving and that I hadn't driven lost distances myself. This year, I felt more comfortable driving. However, I tried to do something different this year; it was coordinating a trip to the retreat with another driver. We met at a location (JCC), and went from them with other driver leading the way and me following. Undoubtedly, this was another learning experience because I've never followed anybody when driving. And especially following somebody during rush hour; that itself was a challenge. Trying to keep up; trying to find out where they are (at times, they were far ahead lol). But thankfully after getting out the major traffic areas, it was a lot easier to follow and manage.
At the retreat itself, the challenges started right away. After getting to retreat and praying Salaatul Asr in Jamaat, the folks in my car and myself went to get our things from the car. And this is where another learning experience kicked. I always lock my doors when I exit the car and don't like to leave any windows open. When we got to the treat, we took out most of the stuff from the seats and thus I locked the door when we went to pray. When we came back, we only had to unload the trunk. So after we unloaded the trunk and closed it, we realized that there was still chips in the car. No biggie right? Just go and open the car? Here's where the problem and the learning experience REALLY kicks in. We couldn't find the key. We all checked our pockets, etc. but no luck. So we thought the worst: they keys were in the trunk, the doors are all locked, and I don't have a back up key. Fast forward to night time and when I go to take my pillow out of a bag, I see the key in there. I can't explain the relief I felt! And it made me learn that a) always bring a back up key; and b) always check to make sure I have the key before I close the trunk.
Another challenge was during Salaat. Alhamdulillah, I was given the opportunity to lead Salaat a few times. I also got to recite duas as well after the Salaat. The two biggest challenges for me were going over certain rules of Jamaat Salaat and also presenting briefly Salaatul Ghufayla. At MIC, Sh. Jaffer has been going over various rules of Jamaat Salaat which have been extremely beneficial. I thought that it would be an excellent idea to take the initiative he started and attempt it at the retreat; I credit the idea to him (and he also gave me his opinion on which rules to mention as well despite only a short time to review them when I asked him). I got some great feedback, alhamdulillah, and I know what I can improve on as well; and inshaAllah, I hope everybody took benefits out of it. I also brought handouts on how to pray Salaatul Ghufayla. Its helped me out in many ways, and I wanted to share its benefit with others. This is something else I learned from Sh. Jaffer in a one-on-one conversation and he also provided me with a handout. I hope everybody remembers to pray it regularly because its a Salaat where you ask for hajaat during the Qunoot in the Salaat. And please keep in your duas, inshaAllah. These two things helped me accomplish both the questions/objectives I had as I felt it would help others and would help me learn when presenting these types of benefits.
There was also the challenges during the activities & workshops. We had to go out of the comfort zone of our daily routine (lack of sleep; different meal times; etc.). We learned quite a few different things during the workshops (e.g. Jonah's complex; creating SMART goals and applying them on the Wheel of Life). We met new people (which was honestly really awesome...I'll explain in a bit why).
The biggest challenge for me was the object that described me. For myself, it was hard choosing something; but I decided to use the same thing as I did last year. This year, I also dug deeper within myself. I had to re-visit old memories, go through some painful timelines, and get myself in that same emotional mindset to really express myself.
The last challenges will be on-going again this year. Everybody has set their SMART goals and made their Wheels of Life. The smaller challenge is to complete and accomplish all those goals. I see this as a smaller challenge because we all dug deep inside and thought about what we really wanted to accomplish before established our SMART goals. The bigger challenge is creating a change. Why is this the bigger challenge? Similar to what I said last year; before we can expect change externally, we must make a change internally (i.e. in ourselves). I won't speak for anybody else at this point, but maybe hope to inspire/help others (as per my second question/objective). The only way change internally is by finding motivation - both internally (primarily) & externally (secondarily). As I mentioned last year as well, people who know know that I've changed and evolved over the past few years (even over the past year). Its hard not to stay stagnant; its always important to grow, and growing in a positive way is a challenge (which can help others by influence and also help me learn about my shortcomings and strengths). But I believe I can achieve this and build from last year. Externally, I have a great mentor and buddy who'll also challenge me. Internally, I have a strong feeling and firm faith in myself that I can accomplish this; and more importantly, I have complete yaqeen (certainty) in the Most Merciful (SWT) that he'll guide me through it all and help me accomplish my goals, especially the biggest one I continuously pray for.
Outside of all the challenges, it was another incredible experience. While last year we got a full moon over the body of water, this year it was a completely clear sky filled stars (during the night time). Honestly unbelievable; I was able to see the Big Dipper constellation! During the day time, it was gorgeous weather with the sun shining down, a peaceful wind, the body of water, and trees surrounding it. So incredibly peaceful (with no cell reception and no WiFi). It makes you realize how limitless the bounties of the Lord are.
I have a poem I wrote called "On the Edge of Insanity"; a person who I met mentioned how the following picture reminded them of the poem (where this tree that stands alone represents a person on the edge of insanity). The picture also represents the scenery from the retreat (and major credits/thanks for the person who took this and let me use the photo for my blog!):
The biggest lesson I learned this year is to have complete yaqeen (certainty) in the Almighty (SWT). When an intention is pure, somehow He'll help you out. Just like how I needed help throughout all these challenges and will still need help with the upcoming challenges, it can only happen with His will and help. As the saying goes: when there's a will, there's a way! So find that will, and you'll find your way! Meeting and networking with new people was great because I could similarities with other folks on things we like (e.g. poetry; speaking publicly; etc.) I also had some really wonderful conversations with people through out the camp, whether it was on the way to the camp fire or it was on the dock, and got to know some people a lot better; I hope they develop into really good friendships at the very least as all those folks are incredible and we could relate on a few different things. I was also happy I got to open up more, share some poetry, and most importantly, meet incredible folks who I hope (inshaAllah) will keep me in their duas.
I honestly hope that next year I'm able to go back in a similar role and develop myself further while helping others (Mashal - this part is for you; THANK YOU for inviting me again this year! Please remember me for next year's retreat, inshaAllah!)
One final note: I have to give another big shout out to my best friend again. Last year, I asked them to update my Facebook status for my 'Quote of the Day', which was done. This year, I found a different method to update but asked them to double-check and make sure it was updated. That's truly how a best friend should be; thanks ketchup buddy! And also a big shout out to my sister who lent me her camera since mine wasn't working. I was able to take some awesome pictures, which I'll upload soon hopefully!
I was asked to play a different role this year, that of an Angel which had quite a few tasks. To sum it up though in one sentence, the role was to help in organizing the retreat itself. And like last year as well, there were a few challenges (albeit, somewhat different than last year). I also went in with two major thoughts/objectives:
1) How can I help others out as much as the retreat helped me last year?
2) How can I learn & develop my own skills this year?
The challenges started off from the get go and thankfully helped me in those two thoughts/objectives. The first two steps (and challenges) itself were to find participants and to fundraise for the retreat.
Finding potential participants wasn't too difficult; it was presenting to them the benefits & value of going. It made me heavily reflect about what I gained from the retreat and how it helped me to develop my own skills (some of the accomplishments are mentioned in my previous post). The method of talking to potential people as well really took me out of my comfort zone, which helped me develop my own skills. I'll be honest; I really don't like talking much on the phone and I tend to remain silent in person. However, I had to really break out of that prison I set on myself and thus allow myself to grow. I also got to use my normal methods to promote & recruit (i.e. Facebook), which was a lot of fun. I pushed as hard as I could on Facebook for people to fill registrations and gouge their interest. I'm not sure how many people I influenced, but I'm hoping that there was at least 1-2 participants I helped influence in coming.
The fundraising was another challenge that also really took me out of my comfort zone. I've never, ever, EVER done any sort of fundraising before. This whole process was a new learning experience for me. Thankfully, there was a lot of people who were willing to help me out once I presented to them how his retreat helped me out, what I hope to accomplish this year, and how their investment will develop the leaders of tomorrow. To all the people who helped: a major, major thank you! This retreat could not have happened without that help.
The rest of the challenges came closer towards the retreat, or at the retreat itself. One challenge that came about was one person who I had been talking to about the retreat having some unexpected obstacles popping up that could have potentially prevented them from coming. This allowed me to work on my first question/objective because I really, really, REALLY wanted that person to be able to make it. Alhamdulillah, that issue got resolved and the person was able to make it. I didn't do much (in my opinion); but I was able to connect with the right person to help get that issue resolved and with the generosity of people, the situation worked out.
Another challenge was the driving aspect. In my post last year, I mentioned how I had a huge fear of driving and that I hadn't driven lost distances myself. This year, I felt more comfortable driving. However, I tried to do something different this year; it was coordinating a trip to the retreat with another driver. We met at a location (JCC), and went from them with other driver leading the way and me following. Undoubtedly, this was another learning experience because I've never followed anybody when driving. And especially following somebody during rush hour; that itself was a challenge. Trying to keep up; trying to find out where they are (at times, they were far ahead lol). But thankfully after getting out the major traffic areas, it was a lot easier to follow and manage.
At the retreat itself, the challenges started right away. After getting to retreat and praying Salaatul Asr in Jamaat, the folks in my car and myself went to get our things from the car. And this is where another learning experience kicked. I always lock my doors when I exit the car and don't like to leave any windows open. When we got to the treat, we took out most of the stuff from the seats and thus I locked the door when we went to pray. When we came back, we only had to unload the trunk. So after we unloaded the trunk and closed it, we realized that there was still chips in the car. No biggie right? Just go and open the car? Here's where the problem and the learning experience REALLY kicks in. We couldn't find the key. We all checked our pockets, etc. but no luck. So we thought the worst: they keys were in the trunk, the doors are all locked, and I don't have a back up key. Fast forward to night time and when I go to take my pillow out of a bag, I see the key in there. I can't explain the relief I felt! And it made me learn that a) always bring a back up key; and b) always check to make sure I have the key before I close the trunk.
Another challenge was during Salaat. Alhamdulillah, I was given the opportunity to lead Salaat a few times. I also got to recite duas as well after the Salaat. The two biggest challenges for me were going over certain rules of Jamaat Salaat and also presenting briefly Salaatul Ghufayla. At MIC, Sh. Jaffer has been going over various rules of Jamaat Salaat which have been extremely beneficial. I thought that it would be an excellent idea to take the initiative he started and attempt it at the retreat; I credit the idea to him (and he also gave me his opinion on which rules to mention as well despite only a short time to review them when I asked him). I got some great feedback, alhamdulillah, and I know what I can improve on as well; and inshaAllah, I hope everybody took benefits out of it. I also brought handouts on how to pray Salaatul Ghufayla. Its helped me out in many ways, and I wanted to share its benefit with others. This is something else I learned from Sh. Jaffer in a one-on-one conversation and he also provided me with a handout. I hope everybody remembers to pray it regularly because its a Salaat where you ask for hajaat during the Qunoot in the Salaat. And please keep in your duas, inshaAllah. These two things helped me accomplish both the questions/objectives I had as I felt it would help others and would help me learn when presenting these types of benefits.
There was also the challenges during the activities & workshops. We had to go out of the comfort zone of our daily routine (lack of sleep; different meal times; etc.). We learned quite a few different things during the workshops (e.g. Jonah's complex; creating SMART goals and applying them on the Wheel of Life). We met new people (which was honestly really awesome...I'll explain in a bit why).
The biggest challenge for me was the object that described me. For myself, it was hard choosing something; but I decided to use the same thing as I did last year. This year, I also dug deeper within myself. I had to re-visit old memories, go through some painful timelines, and get myself in that same emotional mindset to really express myself.
The last challenges will be on-going again this year. Everybody has set their SMART goals and made their Wheels of Life. The smaller challenge is to complete and accomplish all those goals. I see this as a smaller challenge because we all dug deep inside and thought about what we really wanted to accomplish before established our SMART goals. The bigger challenge is creating a change. Why is this the bigger challenge? Similar to what I said last year; before we can expect change externally, we must make a change internally (i.e. in ourselves). I won't speak for anybody else at this point, but maybe hope to inspire/help others (as per my second question/objective). The only way change internally is by finding motivation - both internally (primarily) & externally (secondarily). As I mentioned last year as well, people who know know that I've changed and evolved over the past few years (even over the past year). Its hard not to stay stagnant; its always important to grow, and growing in a positive way is a challenge (which can help others by influence and also help me learn about my shortcomings and strengths). But I believe I can achieve this and build from last year. Externally, I have a great mentor and buddy who'll also challenge me. Internally, I have a strong feeling and firm faith in myself that I can accomplish this; and more importantly, I have complete yaqeen (certainty) in the Most Merciful (SWT) that he'll guide me through it all and help me accomplish my goals, especially the biggest one I continuously pray for.
Outside of all the challenges, it was another incredible experience. While last year we got a full moon over the body of water, this year it was a completely clear sky filled stars (during the night time). Honestly unbelievable; I was able to see the Big Dipper constellation! During the day time, it was gorgeous weather with the sun shining down, a peaceful wind, the body of water, and trees surrounding it. So incredibly peaceful (with no cell reception and no WiFi). It makes you realize how limitless the bounties of the Lord are.
I have a poem I wrote called "On the Edge of Insanity"; a person who I met mentioned how the following picture reminded them of the poem (where this tree that stands alone represents a person on the edge of insanity). The picture also represents the scenery from the retreat (and major credits/thanks for the person who took this and let me use the photo for my blog!):
The biggest lesson I learned this year is to have complete yaqeen (certainty) in the Almighty (SWT). When an intention is pure, somehow He'll help you out. Just like how I needed help throughout all these challenges and will still need help with the upcoming challenges, it can only happen with His will and help. As the saying goes: when there's a will, there's a way! So find that will, and you'll find your way! Meeting and networking with new people was great because I could similarities with other folks on things we like (e.g. poetry; speaking publicly; etc.) I also had some really wonderful conversations with people through out the camp, whether it was on the way to the camp fire or it was on the dock, and got to know some people a lot better; I hope they develop into really good friendships at the very least as all those folks are incredible and we could relate on a few different things. I was also happy I got to open up more, share some poetry, and most importantly, meet incredible folks who I hope (inshaAllah) will keep me in their duas.
I honestly hope that next year I'm able to go back in a similar role and develop myself further while helping others (Mashal - this part is for you; THANK YOU for inviting me again this year! Please remember me for next year's retreat, inshaAllah!)
One final note: I have to give another big shout out to my best friend again. Last year, I asked them to update my Facebook status for my 'Quote of the Day', which was done. This year, I found a different method to update but asked them to double-check and make sure it was updated. That's truly how a best friend should be; thanks ketchup buddy! And also a big shout out to my sister who lent me her camera since mine wasn't working. I was able to take some awesome pictures, which I'll upload soon hopefully!
Wednesday, 17 April 2013
YMAA Leadership Retreat 2013 (Part 1)
I've had a lot of things going on: community events; youth events; work; and personal things. I've kept busy and tried to have a bigger role in things I'm involved in. I attribute all of this to one event last year that helped me in an indescribable way (and don't know how much I could have accomplished had I not attended that event).
As folks may or may not know, I had the experience of a
lifetime when I went to a leadership retreat held by the Young Muslim Athletic
Association (YMAA) for four days. The leadership retreat challenged me in many
ways: overcoming my fears; breaking routine; and looking inside myself deeply
to understand my potential. I also wrote a blog on my experience, which can be found here:
This year, I’ve been given the opportunity to go again in
the role of an Angel. As an Angel; I will have many tasks; this includes recruiting participants (which has already been completed); help in organizing & running the retreat; promote/market
the retreat; and most importantly...(wait for it)...(wait for it)....FUNDRAISING!
As an Angel, one of my biggest tasks is to help in fundraising
towards our cost. To make the retreat affordable, participants were offered a subsidized cost of $200 to attend the retreat *actual cost $400). Due to this, we would fundraise to cover the remaining costs.
Now a potential donor (like yourself!) must be wondering, “What benefit do I get out of
this?” There are multiple benefits! Below are the three that I think would be
the most applicable:
- Financial benefit: a donor is entitled to a tax receipt for this!
- Low cost of investment, high reward: at a low cost, a donor would be helping to develop the leaders of tomorrow – leaders in the community, at work, at school, and life in general!
- Investing in me!: the donor will be helping me in multiple ways; not only financially, but helping me develop my skills further by being able to go to this retreat in the role of an Angel!
After last year’s retreat, I was able to accomplish quite a
few things:
- I remained an active member on the Masumeen Youth Committee (a religious youth committee in Brampton)
- I gave a couple of insightful speeches at the Masumeen Islamic Centre (located in Brampton)
- I wrote an article for a magazine called Jaffari News
- I remained a part of “The Voice” team at work (where our team looks to overcome challenges face by our co-workers in our department)
- I helped launch the “Stand4Hussain” hot chocolate event (where free hot chocolate was handed out in downtown Toronto) & even got interviewed by OMNI News!
So what do I hope to develop this year? Three main things:
- Locus of control: I want to develop a higher internal locus of control, where I hold myself and my actions responsible for the outcomes. It’s easy to blame outside factors for any shortcomings. It’s much harder to look deep into yourself, understand what your weaknesses are, and find ways to work on them and improve yourself. I want to improve and develop my weaknesses while building on strengths to overcome my shortcomings
- Mentoring: As an angel, I will have the opportunity to mentor participants this year. This is a valuable skill that can help me in many situations – at work with my colleagues (and even in a supervisor position); with my friends & family; and in the community where I volunteer.
- Building networks: Networking is a key aspect in many aspects of life. Overall, I hope to build more networks so that I can have more opportunities in the future to continuously develop my skills.
With the assistance/donations, I know I accomplish all
three of these goals and be a leader within the various facets of my life!
We are also looking for small businesses to help in sponsoring the event (and in turn, YMAA would help to advertise for the business). The deadline for a small business to sponsor is rapidly approaching (this upcoming Friday, April 19th 2013).
We are also looking for small businesses to help in sponsoring the event (and in turn, YMAA would help to advertise for the business). The deadline for a small business to sponsor is rapidly approaching (this upcoming Friday, April 19th 2013).
If you are interested (either as a personal donor or as a small business sponsor), please email me at m.z.salehmohamed@gmail.com as soon as possible! Attached is also a picture of the various packages for business sponsorships. Thanks folks!
Monday, 31 December 2012
The Sorrow of Karbala: The Three Rs
I was hoping to have done this in speech format but due to time constraints, wasn't able to. It also took me a while to write this (longer than other blogs/speeches/etc. I've written). I was also hoping to have this done at the beginning of Muharram, but due to time constraints again I wasn't able to do it then. It seems to have worked out better as I've completed it right after Arba'een. Please let me know your thoughts!
To conclude,
these three Rs are a very basic approach and by no means is the only way. There
are many small steps that happen in between. However, it gives us all a
starting point towards making changes within ourselves so that we can closer to
Allah (SWT). Rather than focusing on resolutions that will only benefit us in
this world, we need to shift the focus and make resolutions that will help us
spiritually and benefit us in the next world. And ultimately, what benefits us
in the next world is what pleases Allah (SWT).
Imam Hussain (AS) says, “He who has You has everything; and he who has deprived himself of You is the poorest in the world. Loser is the one who chooses and be content with anyone or anything other than You.”
And especially for the youths who are going through high school and university, plant it in yourselves from now that this materialistic world will be of no benefit to you; only the pleasure of Allah (SWT) will benefit you in any & every aspect of your life. You’re at an age where it is easy to reform and make changes.
As Imam Ali (AS) says, “Surely the heart of the youth is like the uncultivated ground – it will accept whatever you throw upon it (and that is what will grow from it).”
I’d like to end with one last hadith that summarizes these three Rs along with why Imam Hussain (AS) took the stance he did: “I never revolted in vain, as a rebel or as a tyrant, but I rose seeking reformation for the nation of my grandfather Muhammad (SAW). I intend to enjoin good and forbid evil, to act according to the traditions of my grandfather, and my father Ali ibn Abi Talib (AS).”
The sacrifice of Aba Abdillah (AS) should not just be concluded in 12 days during Muharram or a few days for Ashra-e-Zainabiyya during Safar; it should live on in each and every day of our lives to help us reform in preparation of the Awaited Saviour, Hujjatul-Qaim (AJTF). Aba Abdillah’s (AS) message was a universal one that could (and should) be applied to any & every time period and to any & every person. And inshaAllah we followers & lovers of the Ahlul Bayt (AS) utilized this opportunity to start a revolution within us, make resolutions to improve ourselves spiritually, and have committed ourselves to reforming ourselves.
The Sorrow of Karbala: The Three Rs
Throughout the Islamic year, there are many
opportunities that are available for us where we can have a spiritual recharge
& revitalization. Some examples would be during the Fatimiyyah program; the
months of Rajab & Shaban, which then lead to Shahru Ramadhan; and the time of
Hajj. Another opportunity that is given to us are the months Muharram and
Safar; the months in which we commemorate the Sorrow of Karbala and what took
place after. These months of mourning give us the perfect opportunity because
the tears we shed, if they are shed sincerely, soften our heart and help bring
about a change within us spiritually. As human beings, none of us are perfect;
there is always room to improve. More importantly, there is also room to get
closer to Allah (SWT). Bringing about a change is not easy within us; it takes
time and has to be done in steps. But if we are truly sincere about making a
change, then it can happen inshaAllah.As it says in the Holy Quran, “Surely
Allah (SWT) does not change the condition of a people until they change their
own condition.” (Surah ar-Ra’ad; 13:11)
These steps can be summarized in three Rs: revolution; resolution; and reformation.
These steps can be summarized in three Rs: revolution; resolution; and reformation.
The first step is that of ‘revolution’. This
is the stage where you realize that a change is required, and has two other Rs
that go with it: reflection and realization. During reflection, you contemplate
on different aspects of your life: your akhlaq; what angers you; your spiritual
level; etc. This is crucial because without reflecting, you won’t be able to
realize what and where you can improve. Reflection requires silence and
thinking to be truly successful.
Rasoolullah (SAW) says, “A moment's reflection and pondering over is better than one year's worship.”
After carefully and deeply reflecting, you come to the point of realization. At this point, you understand that there is a need for change within yourself. You realize that there is improvement required in certain areas; that there is room to grow spiritually and as a human; and that you can get closer to Allah (SWT). As human beings, we need to constantly grow & involve so that we don’t become stagnant; and the only way that is possible is by constantly evaluating ourselves through reflection in order to come to that realization. After reflecting & realizing, a revolution can then begin within us.
Rasoolullah (SAW) says, “A moment's reflection and pondering over is better than one year's worship.”
After carefully and deeply reflecting, you come to the point of realization. At this point, you understand that there is a need for change within yourself. You realize that there is improvement required in certain areas; that there is room to grow spiritually and as a human; and that you can get closer to Allah (SWT). As human beings, we need to constantly grow & involve so that we don’t become stagnant; and the only way that is possible is by constantly evaluating ourselves through reflection in order to come to that realization. After reflecting & realizing, a revolution can then begin within us.
After understanding that a ‘revolution’ is
required within us, the next step is ‘resolution’. In the Common Era (CE), it’s a tradition that
people make New Year’s resolutions where they look to make commitments in order
to accomplish personal goals or reform certain habits. It goes along with a
theme, ‘a new year, a new beginning’. Examples of New Year’s resolutions are
losing weight, improving finances, or improving education by going back to
school. However, a lot of these resolutions tend to fail. There are numerous
potential reasons as to why. One reason could be the intention and its
sincerity. Another reason could be a weak will, drive, & determination. But
the biggest reason could be that most of these resolutions aren’t done on a
spiritual level to get closer to Allah (SWT). The concept of a New Year’s
resolution is a great way to reform ourselves. We always require a spiritual
recharge; and one of the best opportunities to recharge is when our hearts are
soft while we mourn. The beginning of new Islamic year provides the opportunity
perfectly with the months of Muharram and Safar for us to make New Year’s
resolutions. But the biggest difference would be that these resolutions would
be made on a spiritual level for the sake of Allah (SWT) in order to closer to
Him.
As it says in the Holy Quran, “Say: Surely my prayer and my sacrifice and my life and my death are (all) for Allah (SWT), the Lord of the worlds.” (Surah al-An’aam; 6:162)
One general resolution we should have and keep is to always do every act for Allah (SWT); when we also keep that in mind, then we can also think twice before we commit any acts to ensure that it will have Allah’s (SWT) pleasure in it. It’s also important to understand that we don’t need to make a complete turnaround in every aspect of our lives right away; this would likely be impossible and result in failure. Instead, take a step-by-step approach. Understand your priorities first and which changes you feel are most important; then start making the resolutions on what changes you want to make based on your priorities.
As it says in the Holy Quran, “Say: Surely my prayer and my sacrifice and my life and my death are (all) for Allah (SWT), the Lord of the worlds.” (Surah al-An’aam; 6:162)
One general resolution we should have and keep is to always do every act for Allah (SWT); when we also keep that in mind, then we can also think twice before we commit any acts to ensure that it will have Allah’s (SWT) pleasure in it. It’s also important to understand that we don’t need to make a complete turnaround in every aspect of our lives right away; this would likely be impossible and result in failure. Instead, take a step-by-step approach. Understand your priorities first and which changes you feel are most important; then start making the resolutions on what changes you want to make based on your priorities.
The third,
final, and most important step is ‘reformation’. This is where the plan is put
into action. The Pareto principle (i.e. 80-20 rule) can apply in this. In most
cases, planning takes up 80% and action takes up 20%. However, the opposite
would happen in this case; 20% goes to planning (i.e. revolution &
resolution) and 80% goes to action (i.e. reformation). This is because
reformation will be a long-term, continuing process as there will always be
room to improve. More importantly, there will always be room to get closer to
Allah (SWT). How to get closer to Him? By constant remembrance of Him to try
and understand & appreciate Him. How to reform? By also constantly
remembering Him and understanding what will please Him.
Amir ul-Momineen (AS) says, “The root of reforming the heart is in occupying it with the remembrance of Allah (SWT).”
And by constantly remembering Him, we can constantly reform ourselves as we always remain careful in our actions & intentions. Thus we constantly grow and prevent ourselves from becoming stagnant.
Amir ul-Momineen (AS) says, “The root of reforming the heart is in occupying it with the remembrance of Allah (SWT).”
And by constantly remembering Him, we can constantly reform ourselves as we always remain careful in our actions & intentions. Thus we constantly grow and prevent ourselves from becoming stagnant.
Imam Hussain (AS) says, “He who has You has everything; and he who has deprived himself of You is the poorest in the world. Loser is the one who chooses and be content with anyone or anything other than You.”
And especially for the youths who are going through high school and university, plant it in yourselves from now that this materialistic world will be of no benefit to you; only the pleasure of Allah (SWT) will benefit you in any & every aspect of your life. You’re at an age where it is easy to reform and make changes.
As Imam Ali (AS) says, “Surely the heart of the youth is like the uncultivated ground – it will accept whatever you throw upon it (and that is what will grow from it).”
I’d like to end with one last hadith that summarizes these three Rs along with why Imam Hussain (AS) took the stance he did: “I never revolted in vain, as a rebel or as a tyrant, but I rose seeking reformation for the nation of my grandfather Muhammad (SAW). I intend to enjoin good and forbid evil, to act according to the traditions of my grandfather, and my father Ali ibn Abi Talib (AS).”
The sacrifice of Aba Abdillah (AS) should not just be concluded in 12 days during Muharram or a few days for Ashra-e-Zainabiyya during Safar; it should live on in each and every day of our lives to help us reform in preparation of the Awaited Saviour, Hujjatul-Qaim (AJTF). Aba Abdillah’s (AS) message was a universal one that could (and should) be applied to any & every time period and to any & every person. And inshaAllah we followers & lovers of the Ahlul Bayt (AS) utilized this opportunity to start a revolution within us, make resolutions to improve ourselves spiritually, and have committed ourselves to reforming ourselves.
Tuesday, 13 November 2012
Hat Trick of Eid Celebrations
I've been wanting to do this blog for a while. However with a lot of other things taking my time (and priority), this is the first opportunity I've had. I'll be talking about three Eids in this one and try to stick with the point.
Eid-ul-Adha
"Adorn the two festivals with frequent chants of La Ilaha IllAllah (There is no god but Allah), Allahu Akbar (Allah is the Greatest), Alhamdulillah (All praise is due to Allah), and with glorification of Allah."
This Eid is celebrated after the Hajj pilgrimage is performed and is considered the greater Eid (in comparison to Eid-ul-Fitr). This Eid is to commemorate the sacrifice that Abraham was willing to make when he was going to sacrifice his son (God accepted the intention of the sacrifice; and thus a sheep or goat took the place of his son). Every year, Muslims from every sect and every part of the world travel to perform this journey; all as equals in front of the Almighty (SWT).
This Eid kind of reminds me of Thanksgiving in the sense that it helps us to appreciate things around us a lot more. During the Hajj journey, you are in the most humble state and an equal with everybody. While I haven't been for Hajj, I've heard many stories behind it. And it often makes such a change in people that nobody every returns the same way they want. It also reminds me of Thanksgiving because of the unity factor (as in our secular society, people of different faiths celebrate Thanksgiving). During Hajj, everybody is an equal: rich & poor; black, white, & brown; short & tall; Sunni & Shia. The only that one distinguish one person from another would be the purity of one's heart and intention.
The sacrifice of this Eid also reminds how close Muharram is, and how the greatest sacrifice was given in order to save Islam. The sacrifice that I speak of is Aba Abdillah, Imam Hussain (AS) and his family/companions on the plains of Karbala (as well the events that took place after). I'm saving that blog for another day. But the main reason it reminds me of this is the 360 turn that takes in a month. One month, we celebrate a sacrifice that was made where Abraham was willing to sacrifice his son, and it was accepted without having to sacrifice his son. And yet in the next, we mourn the greatest sacrifice ever made where even Aba Abdillah's (AS) 6-month old baby was also not spared, receiving a three-pong arrow (used to kills camels) to his throat when all Aba Abdillah (AS) did was ask water for the child.
Eid-e-Ghadeer
(Mawla), Ali here is to be his Master. O Allah, be a supporter of whoever supports him (Ali) and an enemy of whoever opposes him and divert the Haq (right) to Ali."
- Prophet Muhammad (SAW)
This was the day where Prophet Muhammad (SAW) declared Amir ul-Momineen, Imam Ali ibne Abi Talib (AS) as his successor. This was done after the Prophet's (SAW) final Hajj at Ghadeer-e-Khumm. On this day, our faith was completed. These were crystal clear words from the Prophet (SAW), and yet people still deny who the rightful successor after the Prophet (SAW) really was. It astonishes me how people can deny the right of Imam Ali (AS) after all the times the Prophet (SAW) declared Imam Ali (AS) as his successor.
And yet when his right was denied, Imam Ali (AS) also sacrificed his right for the betterment and unity of the Muslim Ummah. The amount of patience that Amir ul-Momineen (AS) showed during this time was simply incredible. And he did this with complete akhlaq (the practice of virtue, manners, & morality).
What astonishes me here is that people who claim to love the Prophet (SAW), Imam Ali (AS), and the Ahlul Bayt (AS) can't even follow the same akhlaq and steps that the Masumeen (AS) lived their lives by. Their ignorance has unfortunately further cause a divide in the religion when unity is crucially needed. Some have even gone as far as to insults some of the respect of the religion, those who have sent their whole lives dedicated to serving the religion and studying is laws to be applied in all aspects of our lives. Its really sad to see some people not understand certain concepts properly in the religion.
And by this, I don't mean you don't compromise or sacrifice your beliefs. That's not what unity is. You should still practice it, and TEACH others about why you do certain things. Will people get offended and insult you? Of course. But remember that you attract more flies with honey.
And also remember the story of the Prophet (SAW) and the lady who used to throw garbage on his head every day; the day when she didn't drop anything, he went and check on her to see if she was okay. This is the ESSENCE and AKHLAQ of the Ahlul Bayt (AS).
Eid-e-Mubahila
"And whoever argues with you in this matter after what has come to you of knowledge, then say, 'Come, let us call our sons and your sons and our women and your women and ourselves and yourselves, then let us humbly pray to our Lord and invoke the curse of Allah upon the liars" - Surah Ale-Imran (3:61)
"O Allah, these are the people of my Household (Ahlul Bayt). They are my confidants and my supporters. Their flesh is my flesh and their blood is my blood. Whoever hurts them, hurts me too. Whoever displeases them, displeased me too. I am at war with those at war with them. I am at peace with those at peace with them. I am the enemy of their enemies, and I am the friend of their friends. They are from me and I am from them."
- Prophet Muhammad (SAW)
Eid-e-Mubahila is really special to me for multiple reasons. The first reason is because I gave a speech when I was younger (I can't remember what age). I'll see if I can possibly even dig that out from somewhere. The second reason being is that this is the last Khushali (Happy Occasion) of the Islamic year.
The third reason is based on the event itself (Google it if you want to know the background). This event basically shows importance of the Ahle Kisaa (AS):
The final reason (that comes to mind) on why this Eid is really special is because of the historical events that are commemorated after. As the Islamic year ends on a fairly happy note with this celebration, the beginning of the Islamic year starts off mourning Aba Abdillah (AS) and the tragedy of Karbala. And this ties back to both Eid-ul-Adha and Eid-e-Ghadeer. It ties back to Eid-ul-Adha again because of the greatest sacrifice made and the 360 change of celebrating the acceptance of a sacrifice to the mourning of the greatest sacrifice. And it ties back to Eid-e-Ghadeer because the army (L/A) that fought against the grandson of the Prophet (SAW) were seeking revenge for the valiance of Imam Ali (AS) in the battles that were faced and where he would defend the Prophet (SAW) and Islam against the fathers of the people in the army who were looking to destroy the religion. Some even had the audacity to think they were on the correct path. If only they had paid attention to Eid-e-Mubahila and took the route that Janab-e-Hurr (AS), where he switched sides & came on the right path by defending Aba Abdillah (AS).
So that wraps up the three Eids. In just a couple of nights, Muharram will begin.
InshaAllah I'll attempt to do a blog within the first few nights related to it as well.
Eid-ul-Adha
"Adorn the two festivals with frequent chants of La Ilaha IllAllah (There is no god but Allah), Allahu Akbar (Allah is the Greatest), Alhamdulillah (All praise is due to Allah), and with glorification of Allah."
- Prophet Muhammad (SAW)
This Eid is celebrated after the Hajj pilgrimage is performed and is considered the greater Eid (in comparison to Eid-ul-Fitr). This Eid is to commemorate the sacrifice that Abraham was willing to make when he was going to sacrifice his son (God accepted the intention of the sacrifice; and thus a sheep or goat took the place of his son). Every year, Muslims from every sect and every part of the world travel to perform this journey; all as equals in front of the Almighty (SWT).
This Eid kind of reminds me of Thanksgiving in the sense that it helps us to appreciate things around us a lot more. During the Hajj journey, you are in the most humble state and an equal with everybody. While I haven't been for Hajj, I've heard many stories behind it. And it often makes such a change in people that nobody every returns the same way they want. It also reminds me of Thanksgiving because of the unity factor (as in our secular society, people of different faiths celebrate Thanksgiving). During Hajj, everybody is an equal: rich & poor; black, white, & brown; short & tall; Sunni & Shia. The only that one distinguish one person from another would be the purity of one's heart and intention.
The sacrifice of this Eid also reminds how close Muharram is, and how the greatest sacrifice was given in order to save Islam. The sacrifice that I speak of is Aba Abdillah, Imam Hussain (AS) and his family/companions on the plains of Karbala (as well the events that took place after). I'm saving that blog for another day. But the main reason it reminds me of this is the 360 turn that takes in a month. One month, we celebrate a sacrifice that was made where Abraham was willing to sacrifice his son, and it was accepted without having to sacrifice his son. And yet in the next, we mourn the greatest sacrifice ever made where even Aba Abdillah's (AS) 6-month old baby was also not spared, receiving a three-pong arrow (used to kills camels) to his throat when all Aba Abdillah (AS) did was ask water for the child.
Eid-e-Ghadeer
(Mawla), Ali here is to be his Master. O Allah, be a supporter of whoever supports him (Ali) and an enemy of whoever opposes him and divert the Haq (right) to Ali."
- Prophet Muhammad (SAW)
This was the day where Prophet Muhammad (SAW) declared Amir ul-Momineen, Imam Ali ibne Abi Talib (AS) as his successor. This was done after the Prophet's (SAW) final Hajj at Ghadeer-e-Khumm. On this day, our faith was completed. These were crystal clear words from the Prophet (SAW), and yet people still deny who the rightful successor after the Prophet (SAW) really was. It astonishes me how people can deny the right of Imam Ali (AS) after all the times the Prophet (SAW) declared Imam Ali (AS) as his successor.
And yet when his right was denied, Imam Ali (AS) also sacrificed his right for the betterment and unity of the Muslim Ummah. The amount of patience that Amir ul-Momineen (AS) showed during this time was simply incredible. And he did this with complete akhlaq (the practice of virtue, manners, & morality).
What astonishes me here is that people who claim to love the Prophet (SAW), Imam Ali (AS), and the Ahlul Bayt (AS) can't even follow the same akhlaq and steps that the Masumeen (AS) lived their lives by. Their ignorance has unfortunately further cause a divide in the religion when unity is crucially needed. Some have even gone as far as to insults some of the respect of the religion, those who have sent their whole lives dedicated to serving the religion and studying is laws to be applied in all aspects of our lives. Its really sad to see some people not understand certain concepts properly in the religion.
And by this, I don't mean you don't compromise or sacrifice your beliefs. That's not what unity is. You should still practice it, and TEACH others about why you do certain things. Will people get offended and insult you? Of course. But remember that you attract more flies with honey.
And also remember the story of the Prophet (SAW) and the lady who used to throw garbage on his head every day; the day when she didn't drop anything, he went and check on her to see if she was okay. This is the ESSENCE and AKHLAQ of the Ahlul Bayt (AS).
Eid-e-Mubahila
"And whoever argues with you in this matter after what has come to you of knowledge, then say, 'Come, let us call our sons and your sons and our women and your women and ourselves and yourselves, then let us humbly pray to our Lord and invoke the curse of Allah upon the liars" - Surah Ale-Imran (3:61)
"O Allah, these are the people of my Household (Ahlul Bayt). They are my confidants and my supporters. Their flesh is my flesh and their blood is my blood. Whoever hurts them, hurts me too. Whoever displeases them, displeased me too. I am at war with those at war with them. I am at peace with those at peace with them. I am the enemy of their enemies, and I am the friend of their friends. They are from me and I am from them."
- Prophet Muhammad (SAW)
Eid-e-Mubahila is really special to me for multiple reasons. The first reason is because I gave a speech when I was younger (I can't remember what age). I'll see if I can possibly even dig that out from somewhere. The second reason being is that this is the last Khushali (Happy Occasion) of the Islamic year.
The third reason is based on the event itself (Google it if you want to know the background). This event basically shows importance of the Ahle Kisaa (AS):
- Sons = Imam Hassan (AS) and Imam Hussain (AS)
- Women = Bibi Fatimah (AS)
- Ourselves = Prophet Muhammad (SAW) and Imam Ali (AS)
The final reason (that comes to mind) on why this Eid is really special is because of the historical events that are commemorated after. As the Islamic year ends on a fairly happy note with this celebration, the beginning of the Islamic year starts off mourning Aba Abdillah (AS) and the tragedy of Karbala. And this ties back to both Eid-ul-Adha and Eid-e-Ghadeer. It ties back to Eid-ul-Adha again because of the greatest sacrifice made and the 360 change of celebrating the acceptance of a sacrifice to the mourning of the greatest sacrifice. And it ties back to Eid-e-Ghadeer because the army (L/A) that fought against the grandson of the Prophet (SAW) were seeking revenge for the valiance of Imam Ali (AS) in the battles that were faced and where he would defend the Prophet (SAW) and Islam against the fathers of the people in the army who were looking to destroy the religion. Some even had the audacity to think they were on the correct path. If only they had paid attention to Eid-e-Mubahila and took the route that Janab-e-Hurr (AS), where he switched sides & came on the right path by defending Aba Abdillah (AS).
So that wraps up the three Eids. In just a couple of nights, Muharram will begin.
InshaAllah I'll attempt to do a blog within the first few nights related to it as well.
Sunday, 4 November 2012
Reflections from Nahjul Balagha
During Shahru Ramadhan, I was given another blessed opportunity of giving a speech on lessons from Nahjul Balagha (Peak of Eloquence) on Monday August 13th, 2012 (I have an earlier blog post about the first speech I gave).
For anybody wondering, Nahjul Balagha is a book that was compiled by Sayyed Sharif Razi on the sermons, letters, and sayings of Amir ul-Momineen, Imam Ali ibne Abi Talib (AS). This speech was a year in the making as I was suppose to deliver it last year, but was unable to. Thankfully though, it allowed me to make adjustments to it before I delivered it this year.
I've attached both the video and the transcript; I hope people can take something away from it. The transcript may vary slightly, but overall the same speech & same ideas. I also used some hadiths, which are highlighted in red. Please leave some feedback if you can!
For anybody wondering, Nahjul Balagha is a book that was compiled by Sayyed Sharif Razi on the sermons, letters, and sayings of Amir ul-Momineen, Imam Ali ibne Abi Talib (AS). This speech was a year in the making as I was suppose to deliver it last year, but was unable to. Thankfully though, it allowed me to make adjustments to it before I delivered it this year.
I've attached both the video and the transcript; I hope people can take something away from it. The transcript may vary slightly, but overall the same speech & same ideas. I also used some hadiths, which are highlighted in red. Please leave some feedback if you can!
Reflections from Nahjul Balagha
Bismillāhir-rahmānir-rahīm.
Sheikh Jaffer; my respected scholars and
elders; and my dear brothers & sisters; Salaamun Alaikum. My name is
Mohammad Zahid. I want to thank the Masumeen Management Committee
and the Masumeen Youth Committee for giving me this opportunity.
As Shia Ithna-Asheris, we all feel a special
bond to Amir ul-Momineen (AS). Whether it’s related to being the successor of
Rasoolullah (SAW), or his vital roles throughout the various battles in Islam,
we all tend to feel a connection to him one way or another. Especially for the
youth, there is a special connection; as we all know, there is a saying that
goes, “there is no youth like Ali and no sword like Dhulfiqar.”
One thing that helped me to feel a special
bond to Imam Ali (AS) was reading Nahjul Balagha. Alhamdulillah, I was able to
finish Nahjul Balagha for the first time last year during Shahru Ramadhan. The
more I read Nahjul Balagha, the more I was amazed at the knowledge and words
from Imam Ali (AS). It also helped me to face various situations in my life
with two important aspects that never left Imam Ali’s (AS) side throughout his life:
faith and patience. Tonight, I wanted to share three important lessons from
Nahjul Balagha.
The first lesson is to abstain from worldly
pleasures & desires. Imam Ali (AS) has said “She world is like a
serpent, so soft to touch, but so full of lethal poison. Unwise people are
allured by it and drawn towards it, and wise men avoid it and keep away from
its poisonous effects.”
Throughout Nahjul Balagha, Imam Ali
(AS) has mentioned this in two aspects. The first aspect is to abstain from sins and
vices that seem pleasurable to us, but are more harmful than we can imagine.
These vices will not only hurt us in this world by taking away our blessings,
but in the hereafter as well through punishment.
The second aspect is regarding
people who are in constant chase of wealth. Imam Ali (AS) has mentioned that those
who are in constant chase of wealth suffer in this world as they are in
constant anguish to gain & guard their wealth. And with their focus on
their wealth, they waste the opportunity to do good deeds, such as giving
charity, which then hurts them in the hereafter. Imam Ali (AS) also mentions that this wealth is of
no use because it cannot accompany a person when their journey in this world
ends; the real wealth is in doing good deeds & in increasing your knowledge
as these factors will help you in both this world and in the next.
It is also important to remember
that you don’t have to completely abstain from everything as long as it is
halal and done in moderation. One of the beautiful qualities of Islam is that
it is a religion of moderation and that Allah (SWT) has provided so many
bounties in this world for us. And the reason for that is so that we can get
closer to him by increasing our faith in Him and thanking Him for these
bounties.
The second lesson is to live a
pious life. Imam Ali (AS) has said “Those are the fortunate people who adopt piety
as the principle of their lives and are fully attentive to their welfare for
the Hereafter.” There are many sermons throughout Nahjul Balagha about how to
live a pious life.
The first step again is to abstain
from worldly pleasures & desires. This would help us to stay away from
vices & sins, and help us to live a simpler life. Imam Ali (AS) lived a very
simple & humble life, eating only two pieces of bread a day and making his
living conditions like that of the poorest person under his caliphate.
The next step would be to do good
deeds. This helps to keep our soul clean but more importantly, helps us in the
hereafter with rewards that await us.
The final step is to keep faith in
Allah and remain patient throughout whatever happens. Imam Ali (AS) is one of the
best examples of this through all the obstacles he faced, from his rights being
usurped to having to bury both the Holy Prophet (SAW) and the love of his life,
Bibi Fatimah (AS).
Living a pious life is a crucial
element as it helps us to remain humble and not inflate our own egos. It helps
us to remember that we are nothing in comparison to Allah (SWT) and that every
bounty has been provided by him. To obtain closeness to Him, not
only do we need to be thankful but also perform good deeds. That in itself is a
bounty for us because without those opportunities to do good deeds, we would
not have the opportunity to prepare for the hereafter.
When Allah (SWT) provides us with
bounties, He also tests us with challenges. This shows that there is moderation
in our lives as well in general as we go through both rough and smooth periods
in life. During the smooth phases, we have
the chance to increase our faith by being thankful to Him. And during the rough
phases, we have the chance to increase our faith by being patient and
remembering that Allah (SWT) will help us through it.
The third and probably most
important lesson from Nahjul Balagha is to be ready for death and prepare for
the hereafter. Imam Ali (AS) says, “Blessed is the man who always kept the life
after death in his view, who remembered the Day of Judgment through all his
deeds, who led a contented life and who was happy with the lot that Allah (SWT) had
destined for him.”
Imam Ali (AS) mentions that death can
come unexpectedly at any time, whether we want to it to or not. Therefore we
must prepare for death, because after death will come the hereafter. And the
result of the hereafter will be dependent on our actions, deeds, and faith in
Allah (SWT).
The two best ways to prepare for
death and the hereafter are again by abstaining from worldly pleasures & desires,
and to live a pious life.
In this short journey of life, we
must do as many good deeds as we can, like helping one another or giving
charity. Especially in Ramadhan, there is an opportunity to give charity all
around us. Other good deeds would be to help one another out; it can be as
simple as giving a ride to somebody to the Masjid who isn’t able to come on
their own. And when we do these good deeds, it helps to build our rewards in
the hereafter. After all as Imam Ali (AS) states, the life in this world is a
temporary journey. Our real destinations are in the hereafter and to reach
Jannat.
In closing, there are many lessons
than we can take away from Nahjul Balagha. To my fellow youth, I urge you all
to take sometime and read Nahjul Balagha, even if its only a few pages
everyday. The depth of knowledge and wisdom of Imam Ali (AS) and his words in Nahjul
Balagha are simply incredible. Throughout the sermons, letters, and sayings, it
can be seen that Imam Ali (AS) has been through every situation that we all face in
our lives, and he’s been able to always deal with them with patience and faith
in Allah (SWT).
Often in our lives, we get very
discouraged when challenges come up and don’t know who to turn to for advice.
And while this is not the only solution, reading Nahjul Balagha is an extremely
helpful one. The amount of hardships that Amir ul-Momineen (AS) has been through
makes the trials and tribulations we face very small. Yet, we can find a solution for our
problems by reading his words as well as following the two things that he never
abandoned: patience and faith.
Imam Ali (AS) says, "Overcome your
sorrows, your worries and your misfortunes with patience and faith in the
Merciful Lord and your hard work; one who gives up a straight path, honest and
rational ways of thinking and working, will harm himself."
I’d like to end with Imam Ali’s (AS)
famous quote, “Live amongst people in such a manner that if you die they weep
over you and if you are alive they crave for your company.” Thank you all once
again. Wasalaam.
Monday, 8 October 2012
Reflection #2
This isn't a continuation from the the blog post I wrote called "Reflection", but has a bit of a similar concept behind it and is another reflection.
I posted a Facebook status with some very brief points (for various reasons).I wanted to write a blog post about it as well, but didn't get the opportunity till now.
Last week on the way to the grocery store, there was a major accident I saw between a motorbike and a car. While passing by the scene, I saw the biker laying on the ground while somebody was checking him. There was no police or ambulance there because it seemed like it was a fresh accident as there was Good Samaritan that was guiding traffic and telling people when to go just to make sure no other accident happened or that first accident didn't get any more terrible.
I don't know what happened to that guy who was laying on the ground (and didn't see it on the news either, although I may have missed it). I don't know if he was okay; I don't know if he was taken to the hospital; I don't know if he survived. That image of him though just laying on the ground is imprinted in my mind.
It goes to show how short this life can be, and within an instant everything in life can completely change (I know this better than anybody); it can even change from life to death (just like what happened here - a possible/potential consequence; I'm hoping though the guy was okay and only would have gotten minor injuries at the most).
We should never take anything for granted: family; friends; food; job; money; the Almighty; etc
Show love to your loved ones; be friendly to people; do as much good as you can. Not only will these things make your life more positive, but you can really have an affect on another person's life. Avoid hurting other people's feelings and playing with their emotions; this can also affect another person greatly, and it can also come back to haunt and/or hurt you in other shapes or forms.
Don't have any regrets or any doubts in life; the "what if" questions are always killer and will cause you unnecessary emotional & mental anguish. Avoid the doubts in all facets of your life, especially in the major decisions.You need to trust yourself and the decisions you make; trust your 'aql (intellect), your reasoning, and your intuition (when you've carefully pondered over something and have used your intellect); but most importantly, trust the Almighty (SWT) that you're making the right decision and that He'll help you no matter what the outcome is. The Almighty (SWT) has given us these gifts for our own benefits and we need to use them to make our own decisions; we shouldn't let another person decide our fate or rely solely on traditional methods/procedures of making decisions. No doubt (no pun intended) that doubts will still be there; that's natural and that's when it becomes necessary towards using methods/procedures to remove the doubts, or seeking advice and/or help from somebody else. But when we don't use our intellect, reasoning, & intuition, then we'll end up blindly following results from the methods/procedures or accept the decisions another made for us. To put this into perspective, it would be like somebody deciding for you or something telling you to jump off a cliff and you accept it without using your own intellect, reasoning, and intuition. So avoid having the doubts; it will make life easier for you and also give you time to focus your energy in a more positive way. Which leads to one last point.
The most important point, is striving in the way of the Almighty (SWT) to continuously get closer to Him; because that is our ultimate goal in life (or should be). And if we are close to Him, He'll find a solution for is in the problems and challenges that come up. Keep in mind this verse:
"...We are nearer to him than his jugular vein." Holy Qur'an, Surah Qaaf (50:16) (this is the second half of the verse).
When we realize how close the Almighty (SWT) really is to us, we can improve our relationship with Him and get closer to Him by striving towards Him and His path.
These opportunities may not be available again tomorrow, or even later today. Because this life can be short; within an instant everything in life can completely change; and it can even change from life to death.
I posted a Facebook status with some very brief points (for various reasons).I wanted to write a blog post about it as well, but didn't get the opportunity till now.
Last week on the way to the grocery store, there was a major accident I saw between a motorbike and a car. While passing by the scene, I saw the biker laying on the ground while somebody was checking him. There was no police or ambulance there because it seemed like it was a fresh accident as there was Good Samaritan that was guiding traffic and telling people when to go just to make sure no other accident happened or that first accident didn't get any more terrible.
I don't know what happened to that guy who was laying on the ground (and didn't see it on the news either, although I may have missed it). I don't know if he was okay; I don't know if he was taken to the hospital; I don't know if he survived. That image of him though just laying on the ground is imprinted in my mind.
It goes to show how short this life can be, and within an instant everything in life can completely change (I know this better than anybody); it can even change from life to death (just like what happened here - a possible/potential consequence; I'm hoping though the guy was okay and only would have gotten minor injuries at the most).
We should never take anything for granted: family; friends; food; job; money; the Almighty; etc
Show love to your loved ones; be friendly to people; do as much good as you can. Not only will these things make your life more positive, but you can really have an affect on another person's life. Avoid hurting other people's feelings and playing with their emotions; this can also affect another person greatly, and it can also come back to haunt and/or hurt you in other shapes or forms.
Don't have any regrets or any doubts in life; the "what if" questions are always killer and will cause you unnecessary emotional & mental anguish. Avoid the doubts in all facets of your life, especially in the major decisions.You need to trust yourself and the decisions you make; trust your 'aql (intellect), your reasoning, and your intuition (when you've carefully pondered over something and have used your intellect); but most importantly, trust the Almighty (SWT) that you're making the right decision and that He'll help you no matter what the outcome is. The Almighty (SWT) has given us these gifts for our own benefits and we need to use them to make our own decisions; we shouldn't let another person decide our fate or rely solely on traditional methods/procedures of making decisions. No doubt (no pun intended) that doubts will still be there; that's natural and that's when it becomes necessary towards using methods/procedures to remove the doubts, or seeking advice and/or help from somebody else. But when we don't use our intellect, reasoning, & intuition, then we'll end up blindly following results from the methods/procedures or accept the decisions another made for us. To put this into perspective, it would be like somebody deciding for you or something telling you to jump off a cliff and you accept it without using your own intellect, reasoning, and intuition. So avoid having the doubts; it will make life easier for you and also give you time to focus your energy in a more positive way. Which leads to one last point.
The most important point, is striving in the way of the Almighty (SWT) to continuously get closer to Him; because that is our ultimate goal in life (or should be). And if we are close to Him, He'll find a solution for is in the problems and challenges that come up. Keep in mind this verse:
"...We are nearer to him than his jugular vein." Holy Qur'an, Surah Qaaf (50:16) (this is the second half of the verse).
When we realize how close the Almighty (SWT) really is to us, we can improve our relationship with Him and get closer to Him by striving towards Him and His path.
These opportunities may not be available again tomorrow, or even later today. Because this life can be short; within an instant everything in life can completely change; and it can even change from life to death.
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