Reflection #2

This isn't a continuation from the the blog post I wrote called "Reflection", but has a bit of a similar concept behind it and is another reflection.

I posted a Facebook status with some very brief points (for various reasons).I wanted to write a blog post about it as well, but didn't get the opportunity till now.

Last week on the way to the grocery store, there was a major accident I saw between a motorbike and a car. While passing by the scene, I saw the biker laying on the ground while somebody was checking him. There was no police or ambulance there because it seemed like it was a fresh accident as there was Good Samaritan that was guiding traffic and telling people when to go just to make sure no other accident happened or that first accident didn't get any more terrible.

I don't know what happened to that guy who was laying on the ground (and didn't see it on the news either, although I may have missed it). I don't know if he was okay; I don't know if he was taken to the hospital; I don't know if he survived. That image of him though just laying on the ground is imprinted in my mind.

It goes to show how short this life can be, and within an instant everything in life can completely change (I know this better than anybody); it can even change from life to death (just like what happened here - a possible/potential consequence; I'm hoping though the guy was okay and only would have gotten minor injuries at the most).

We should never take anything for granted: family; friends; food; job; money; the Almighty; etc
Show love to your loved ones; be friendly to people; do as much good as you can. Not only will these things make your life more positive, but you can really have an affect on another person's life. Avoid hurting other people's feelings and playing with their emotions; this can also affect another person greatly, and it can also come back to haunt and/or hurt you in other shapes or forms.
Don't have any regrets or any doubts in life; the "what if" questions are always killer and will cause you unnecessary emotional & mental anguish. Avoid the doubts in all facets of your life, especially in the major decisions.You need to trust yourself and the decisions you make; trust your 'aql (intellect), your reasoning, and your intuition (when you've carefully pondered over something and have used your intellect); but most importantly, trust the Almighty (SWT) that you're making the right decision and that He'll help you no matter what the outcome is. The Almighty (SWT) has given us these gifts for our own benefits and we need to use them to make our own decisions; we shouldn't let another person decide our fate or rely solely on traditional methods/procedures of making decisions. No doubt (no pun intended) that doubts will still be there; that's natural and that's when it becomes necessary towards using methods/procedures to remove the doubts, or seeking advice and/or help from somebody else. But when we don't use our intellect, reasoning, & intuition, then we'll end up blindly following results from the methods/procedures or accept the decisions another made for us. To put this into perspective, it would be like somebody deciding for you or something telling you to jump off a cliff and you accept it without using your own intellect, reasoning, and intuition. So avoid having the doubts; it will make life easier for you and also give you time to focus your energy in a more positive way. Which leads to one last point.
The most important point, is striving in the way of the Almighty (SWT) to continuously get closer to Him; because that is our ultimate goal in life (or should be). And if we are close to Him, He'll find a solution for is in the problems and challenges that come up. Keep in mind this verse:
"...We are nearer to him than his jugular vein." Holy Qur'an, Surah Qaaf (50:16) (this is the second half of the verse).
When we realize how close the Almighty (SWT) really is to us, we can improve our relationship with Him and get closer to Him by striving towards Him and His path.

These opportunities may not be available again tomorrow, or even later today. Because this life can be short; within an instant everything in life can completely change; and it can even change from life to death.

Epiphany: Loyalty and 313

So I got sick a couple of weeks ago. And usually when I get sick, I tend to have epiphanies (small ones, but things that I didn't really think of before that shift my perspective or help me grow). This time was no different, and it was a more significant one than I usually have.

I'll also mention from now that this post will mainly be related to religion; so if that bugs you, then you may want to stop reading right now. However you can probably still take something out of it (hopefully) if you decide to read it.
Another point I'll mention is that whatever I say in this, I advise myself of this first & foremost and then everybody else.

To give a very brief background, it all started with an event at MIC related to 12th & Awaited Imam (AJTF) where there was a question brought up about how the Imam (AJTF) will only appear when there are 313 true momins in the world (this event was held the day before I started getting sick). Fast forward a little bit to when I got sick and resting up as much as I could, my mind started to wander on many things. One of the things that came to mind was loyalty & betrayal (similar situations I mentioned in my first blog, but different event itself). And that's where I had my epiphany. What was the epiphany? I'll get to it in a moment. But after the epiphany, I ended August with a two-for-one 'Quote of the Day' with two hadiths related to both loyalty & betrayal. These hadiths are as follows (and I'll also go over these after explaining the epiphany):

"Loyalty is the fortress of chiefdom." - Amir ul-Momimeen, Imam Ali (AS)
"Betrayal is the fountainhead of hypocrisy." - Amir ul-Momimeen, Imam Ali (AS)

So what was my epiphany? Well, a lot of people often wonder how it could it be with nearly the billions of people in the world and those before us, how could there not be 313 true momins? While there is a lot of factors & reasons, the one that stuck out to me was (and this is where the epiphany kicks in) that there is a lack of loyalty. Betrayal is very apparent in this world and in actions of people. So why does this affect the Awaited Imam (AJTF)?

The question should actually be "Why would the Awaited (AJTF) show up when there are so many disloyal followers? When there is so much betrayal? When you cannot trust the majority?" This is the same problem that the other Masumeen also faced throughout their lives (e.g. think of Imam Hassan [AS] and the situation after Imam Ali [AS] was martyred - refer to my previous post 'The Forgotten Imam [AS]'). The Awaited (AJTF) will only re-appear when there 313 loyal followers; followers like the 72 Aba Abdillah, Imam Hussain (AS) had in Karbala. And sadly, it hasn't reach to that point. This is the bitter truth.

One thing I also want to clarify: when I refer to loyalty, I mean in the sense of what is haqq (right / truth) & what is batil (wrong / false). We need to differentiate between what is haqq & batil, and then remain loyal to what is haqq while avoiding what is batil.

Loyalty starts off with those closest to us: our family. There are many hadiths on the rights of our parents (especially our mothers) over us. There is also a huge stress on keeping relations with your family (not only your immediate family, but also your relatives).
After this, comes your close friends. There are also many hadiths on what a true friend is and the importance of not betraying their trust.
The next part comes to people of the community, which is stressed in importance through 'brotherhood' & 'sisterhood' (i.e. people of our Ummah are considered as brothers/sisters in faith). And close to this, is everybody is outside of the Ummah (i.e. equals in humanity as Imam Ali [AS] has referred to them).
And finally (but most importantly) comes loyalty to Allah (SWT) and His chosen ones (i.e the 14 Masumeen [AS]). Why is this one not first? Because if you are disloyal to any of the above, you are immediately disloyal to Allah (SWT) and the 14 Masumeen (AS). In order to reach the highest stage of loyalty, you have to start off with what is closest to you. And that leads to the next point.

How can we expect to be loyal to our Awaited (AJTF) when we can't even be loyal to those who are closest to us? Backbiting about friends; doing something that you know will hurt your mother; going behind your sister's back and keeping close relations with people that have hurt her. All these things are disloyal; all these things are betrayal. The answer to the question: we can't. Sadly, people are under the illusion that they'll be loyal. But being loyal takes much more than just saying. It means to actually do it, no matter what. No questions asked, nothing. And this itself takes a high level commitment. And when a person betrays those who are closest to them, they have no foundation set on even being the least bit committed. Outwardly, a person say whatever is the correct thing to say; but internally, they won't act on it. This makes them amongst the munafiqoon (hypocrites). And we must be VERY careful of this, because the position of & outcome of being a hypocrite is well known.
Once a person is able to stay loyal and not betray those close to them, then they can work towards developing a higher level commitment where they will be successful in remain loyal to the Almighty (SWT) and the 14 Masumeen (AS), especially the Awaited (AJTF).
Keep in mind, loyalty doesn't mean that you keep silent when someone close to you is doing something wrong. That's a part of loyalty; to let them know if they're doing something wrong and help them to correct their way. By not doing so, you are betraying them because they have put their trust in you to help guide them if they ever need it (and vice versa).

Going back to the two hadiths. Take a look at the title of who the hadiths are attributed to: the Commander / Leader of the Faithful (Amir ul-Momineen), Imam Ali (AS). He is the best of leaders after the Holy Prophet (SAW). In a few words, he explains of both what loyalty and betrayal are.
As the most loyal follower of the Holy Prophet (SAW) and the most loyal to Almighty (SWT) after the Prophet (SAW), he is recognized as the Commander of the Faithful. When a person is loyal, people will trust that person; and in most cases, people will return that loyalty. And in the same way if someone betrays people, they are a hypocrite; they some one thing and do something else.
Therefore, loyalty is one the qualities of a leader and betrayal is the quality of a hypocrite.

Again, I speak to myself before I speak to others. Let's work on being more loyal to haqq. Because once there are enough momin who are truly loyal in all aspects, the Awaited Saviour (AJTF) will then re-appear, God-willing.

Also, if I have offended anybody, my sincerest apologies as that wasn't my intention. But I hope that whoever read this was able to take something away from it.

The Forgotten Imam (AS)

During Shahru Ramadhan, I had the blessed opportunity of giving a speech on Imam Hassan (AS) on Friday August 3rd, 2012.
There were many different ways I could have gone into the speech, which made it difficult to write. But with some help, thankfully I was able to write it and also have it recorded. I've attached the video and the transcript; I hope people can take something or another away from it.
The video is a little cut off from the beginning due to some phone issues (but the transcript is under as it is - it may vary slightly but overall the same speech & same ideas). I also used some hadiths, which are highlighted in red. Please leave some feedback if you can!

The Forgotten Imam (AS)

Bismillāhir-rahmānir-rahīm.

Maulana Rizvi; my respected scholars and elders; and my dear brothers & sisters; Salaamun Alaikum. My name is Mohammad Zahid. I want to thank the Masumeen Management Committee and the Masumeen Youth Committee for giving me this opportunity.

Generally when we think of the Ahlul Bayt (AS), we think of their importance. For example, Rasoolullah (SAW) is the final Prophet of Allah (SWT) and who brought Islam; Imam Ali (AS) is successor of the Prophet (SAW) and the Commander of the Faithful; Bibi Fatimah Az-Zahra (AS) is leader of the women of the universe; and Imam Hussain (AS) is the king of martyrs who saved Islam. But the one person who is often overlooked is the second Imam, Imam Hassan (AS). It is quite a tragedy that he is so overlooked when there are so many important lessons we can take away from his life. And especially for us youth, there are so many examples we can learn from his life. I’ll admit that I won’t be able to do justice in this speech because of limited time. However, I will try my best to touch up on some important lessons we can take from the life of Imam Hassan (AS).

The first lesson that we can take away from Imam Hassan’s (AS) life is taking of responsibility. This lesson shows up in at least two crucial points in the life of Imam Hassan (AS).

The first point came at the age of 8 when he lost two of the biggest influences in his life: his grandfather, the Holy Prophet (SAW); and his mother, Bibi Fatimah (AS). Despite losing these two, and that too at such a young age, Imam Hassan (AS) was able to remain patient. In fact, he had to assume a father-figure & parent-figure role to his younger siblings, Imam Hussain (AS), Bibi Zainab (AS), and Umm Kulthum (AS). This in itself is a lesson as it shows that age is of no real concern in order to assume responsibility; as long as one has the mental capability and maturity, they can take on responsibility.

The second point came after the martyrdom of Amir ul-Momimeen (AS). At this point, Imam Hassan (AS) had a greater challenge as now he had to assume responsibility of the Muslim Ummah and at a time where Muawiya (L/A) was unjustly trying to take away his (the Imam’s) right. I will go over that point in a few moments.

But overall, these two points show that despite the challenges, Imam Hassan (AS) remained patient and took on the responsibility that was required. Often when we are faced with challenges, we tend to try and run away from them; and this leads to more challenges. We should instead take responsibility and face these challenges. Even when there aren’t challenges, we should look to take on responsibility in all different aspects of our lives, whether it be at school, work, or at home.

            The second lesson we can take away from Imam Hassan’s (AS) life is the concept of leadership. Rasoolullah (SAW) has said that “Hassan and Hussain are the Masters of the Youth of Paradise.” This hadith shows the leadership that has been bestowed upon Imam Hassan (AS). Prior to becoming the Imam, Imam Hassan (AS) played a vital role in Imam Ali’s (AS) army during the battles of Jamal, Siffin, and Nahrawan. Not only was he the flag-bearer during all three of the battles, but he also defended the right of Imam Ali (AS) against his enemies.

After the death of Amir ul-Momineen (AS), Imam Hassan (AS) then became the Imam. Along with being the religious leader of the Muslim Ummah, Imam Hassan (AS) was also to be the next Caliph & thus a political leader as well. Due to the treacheries of Muawiya (L/A) and the lack of support from people who claimed to be his followers though, Imam Hassan (AS) had to give up his right as being the Caliph and signed into the peace treaty with Muawiya (L/A). He still remained as the Imam as that was an appointment from Allah (SWT).

This shows that leadership does not to be fulfilled in only a religious way, but that leadership roles can be fulfilled in all aspects. With all the negative portrayal of Islam, it is extremely crucial for us to take more of a leadership role in media and politics. If we take on these, then we can influence the image that is being painted about us to show what the truth is about our beautiful and perfect religion.        

The final lesson I will mention that we can take away from Imam Hassan’s (AS) life is that of decision-making. As soon as Imam Hassan (AS) became the Imam, Muawiya (L/A) wanted to go to war. Imam Hassan (AS) was willing to fight; however a lot of his companions were tired of fighting after having fought 3 battles on the side of Imam Ali (AS). Imam Hassan (AS) was still willing to fight with 20,000 men against Muawiya’s (L/A) army of 76,000. But the next factor that hindered this was the fact a good portion of Imam Hassan’s (AS) army was easily bribed and switched sides based on this. This reduced the army down even further to 8,000 but Imam Hassan (AS) was still willing to fight. Muawiya (L/A) then spread a rumour saying that Imam Hassan (AS) did not want to fight; because of this, Imam Hassan (AS) was attacked by people in his own army; specifically the Kharijites, the same people who opposed Imam Ali (AS) after Siffin. Not knowing who to trust and not having an army that would be able to survive, Imam Hassan (AS) had signed the peace treaty with Muawiya (L/A).

            Why did Imam Hassan (AS) make this decision? Because Imam Hassan (AS) knew what his objectives were & was also farsighted. Imam Hassan (AS) knew that Muawiya (L/A) would not comply with the treaty that was signed. And when Muawiya (L/A) would break the treaty, it would show to the Ummah that Imam Hassan (AS) was truthful and on the right path while Muawiya (L/A) was a liar and on the wrong path.

            This is one lesson we need to focus on. Very often, we let our egos get in the way of decision-making and forget what our overall objectives are. We also become very stubborn and go with a ‘my way or the highway’ approach instead of being farsighted and determining what is the best course of action to take. If we set our egos aside, especially when it comes to issues with the community, then not only will we be able to meet our objectives but we will also be able to improve and strengthen our community.

            To conclude, I want to re-iterate that there are many lessons we can take away from the life of Imam Hassan (AS). He was oppressed in his life and still is oppressed today. I urge myself firstly, and everybody as well to learn more about his life; especially about the peace treaty that was signed.

For my fellow youth, I urge you all to take the lessons I mentioned and apply them in your life. Imam Ali (AS) has said, “Hours of leisure pass away like summer-clouds, therefore do not waste opportunity of doing good.” There is a lot of apathy in our community. Our community cannot go on without you being involved. I was somebody who wasn’t involved for quite a while for personal reasons and it left a huge void. Do not make that same mistake. Be a part of the community. Take responsibility; take on leadership roles. When the Masumeen Youth Committee is looking for new members, take a step forward and join. Help build our community to please Imam Hassan (AS) and prepare for the Imam of our time, the 12^th Imam (AS).

Imam Hassan (AS) has said, “Allah provides everything to one who worships Allah.” These are the types of opportunity available to serve and worship Allah (SWT). And our goal in life is to get as close to Him as we can. Thank you all once again. Wasalaam.

Exiting Shahru Ramadhan

"There is no Mu'min, who fasts for a day in the month of Ramadhan with the intention of attaining its rewards, except that Allah, The Exalted, grants him seven excellences:

1. The forbidden food that had entered into his body melts away.
2. He moves closer to the Mercy of Allah, The Exalted.
3. Allah expiates his sins.
4. Allah reduces for him the agony of death.
5. Allah protects him from the hunger and thirst of the Day of Judgment.
6. He is granted pardon from the fire (of Hell).
7. Allah provides him the good and pleasant food of Paradise."

 - Rasoolullah (SAW) (Source: Mustadrak al-Wasaail al-Shia'h, vol. 7, pg. 395)

First and foremost, Eid Mubarak to everybody and their families. Lord-willing, I hope everyone had a blessed Eid day.

Thirty days ago, we entered the month of Shahru Ramadhan. Like every Shahru Ramadhan, there is excitement and yet there is also tension. The excitement & tension both come because Shahru Ramadhan has a different 'feel' to it than other months. Excitement is due to what is available in this month; in three simple words: mercy, forgiveness, and blessings. Tension is mainly because the huge shift in daily routines (in most cases).

For me, I had both these feelings. Excitement because every moment in this month would provide a benefit. The tension arose from a physical standpoint with work (i.e. not being able to drink water). Alhamdulillah, with the help of the Almighty, that was never an issue at work.

Originally, I wanted to do a blog post on preparing for Shahru Ramadhan. However due to time restrictions, I wasn't able to. Instead, I'll do a reflection type blog post on this holy month.

Shahru Ramadhan is unlike any month. There are so many blessings throughout this month that its hard to even fathom how anybody wouldn't be to make major gains in the month. There are many hadiths on the blessings from this month. I posted a different hadith every night during the month. Here is a link:
http://www.ezsoftech.com/ramadan/ramadan24.asp
A general overview of this month: Dua Iftitah is recited every night; the Holy Qur'an (which was revealed in this month) is very, very highly recommended to be recited in the month (and one should take the opportunity to understand it); regular obligatory acts are multiplied in benefits; recommended acts are also multiplied; Laylatul Qadr (the night of power) falls within the month and shapes our destiny. I could go on and on about the benefits, but I'm sure everybody can do more research into that on their own.

There was so much I wanted to do going into this month in terms of ibadat (worship) and connecting on a spiritual level. While I wasn't able to do everything in terms of ibadat (time constraints again), I attempted to do whatever I could; and Lord-willing, it was accepted. Spiritually, I felt as if I made a much bigger connection; this is what I feel is the most important goal of Shahru Ramadhan - to connect with the Almighty and get as close to him as possible. The Lord provided me with some beautiful opportunities through people: giving speeches related to Imam Hassan (AS) & Imam Ali (AS) (I couldn't do them justice but God-willing I'll post the transcripts & possibly videos of the speeches); I was given a role during one of the nights in Laylatul Qadr; I was able to recite adhan (this may seem small - but one, including myself, really needs to understand what the adhan is to realize its significance); I was able to post a hadith & specific dua every day. I'm sure there were other things as well which I can't remember; but the most important opportunity was to gain knowledge. Throughout all these things, I felt like I made some progress in getting closer to the Almighty and I hope to build on that as well even after Shahru Ramadhan has passed.

As Shias, we have been blessed with many opportunities to get closer to the Almighty. The beginning of our year during Muharram & Safar is marked with the remembrance of Aba Abdillah's (AS) sacrifice and the trials faced by Imam Sajjad (AS), Bibi Zainab (AS), Bibi Sakina (AS), & the rest of the caravan; it starts off in a mourning fashion to soften our hearts for the rest of the year. And also during these months, we commemorate other days of mourning, like the martyrdom of Rasoolullah (SAW) & Imam Hassan (AS). Then we come to happier times during Rabi-ul-Awwal with the celebrations of Eid-e-Zahra and Milad-un-Nabi. Again we go through a mourning during the Fatimiyyah days when Jumada-al-Awwal and Jumada-al-Thani come (as the exact date isn't known, although one date is likelier than the other). Then we get the blessed months of Rajab, Shabaan, and Shahru Ramadhan (back-to-back-to-back months with major benefits). And towards the end of the year, we have Eid-ul-Adha during Hajj Dhul-Hijjah; we also get the Eid-e-Ghadeer and Eid-e-Mubahila (which itself shows the importance of the Ahlul Kisaa & also shows where the succesorship should have gone after the passing of Rasoolullah SAW).

We need to take advantage of these opportunities, especially because we don't know if we'll ever get these opportunities again. Shahru Ramadhan is the peak of the year by giving us a huge spiritual revival. When the month passes, there is a bad habit of going back to our old habits. Instead, we need to continue the progression and find ways to get closer to the Almighty. During Shahru Ramadhan, the doors of Paradise were open, the doors of Hell closed, Iblis had been banished, and (most importantly) we were guests of the Almighty (especially during Laylatul Qadr). What we gained from that month needs to be carried forward because now things will be challenging again (as Iblis is back on the loose); this is where are true test comes and this is where we'll see how close we really are to the Almighty and how close we can really get to Him.

To end this post (sorry for the length, but I hope you can appreciate it), I'll end with another hadith, which I really love:
"O' God! Ordain not this month of Ramadhan to be the last one for my fasts. But should you ordain it to be so, then make me blessed and leave me not deprived (of Your mercy)." - Rasoolullah (SAW)
(Source: Badaabi Az Quran, pg. 398)

My Birthday

"When few blessings come your way, do not drive them away through thanklessness." - Imam Ali (AS)

Today I was blessed with the ability to celebrate my 26th birthday. Words can't express how I excited and anxious I felt for this birthday. I was doing a count down without really coming out with it by posting facts about numbers and working my way down till I got to 0.
The main reason this birthday excited me was because of Friday the 13th, as well as it being the 13th day of the 7th month. Friday, 07/13; the quote I used - people who understand will be able to connect the dots. It goes to more than just the dates, more-so a bond/connection I feel.
However, there was other factors that made me really anticipate this birthday. There was a quite a few disappointments (to say the least) during the first half of my 26th year (i.e. July to about January). July itself wasn't so bad; but I'd say probably around end of August it wasn't really an enjoyable period. Every time it felt that something was about to go right, it didn't. There was a bit hurt for a while, a bit of disappointment, and a good chunk of frustration. But as I stated in my blog post "Reflection", every experience I had helped me grow.
The second half is where things started getting better in all aspects for me. And with all the positive momentum I received from the Almighty (SWT), it made me feel excited because my 26th year ended on a positive note. And Almighty-willing, my 27th year will be even more positive in all aspects for me.

As for my birthday. Well, I took the day off work. The Almighty's mercy was placed for that because originally, I wasn't able to get that day off. I started the day with Fajr prayers (obviously), feeling a bit more energized. After sleeping & waking up, I trimmed my big beard after 6 weeks. Then I went for a haircut. My head feels 5 pounds lighter now. After that, I got my day really started as I went for Jumaah Salaat (Friday Prayers) - another reason to be excited for me. I came home then and for a few hours, spent time with my family. By the time everybody was gone, there was only a couple of hours left. So I just relaxed; said my Maghrib & Isha prayers. And throughout the day, I received multiple wishes. Overall, a wonderful day. I'm truly blessed for family and friends who took the time out of their busy schedules to think of me (even if it was only for a few moments).

Why is my birthday so important? I'll end this post by explaining that. My birthday is the one and only time a year that I hope (and maybe expect) to be wished/greeted. Any other day, it doesn't bother me if people don't greet me. I feel birthdays are important because that is the day you were brought on this Earth; and I believe everybody is brought to Earth for a purpose (whether we recognize/fulfill that purpose is a different story). And I feel that that by sending a wish to a person, you show them that they are important & that they do have a purpose (again whether they realize that or not is a different story). I've made it a point to try and wish everybody that I can a happy birthday if I know its their birthday. Obviously, I'm not perfect in that sense. But I try my best to wish everybody - from old high school classmates, to co-workers, to friends & family. I feel its a sign of respect - and I don't ask for much except for some respect back. When certain folks don't send a wish even though they have the ability to, it shows a lot about their character to me. To me, it shows they are stingy - how long does it take to type a few simple words? (But please note: I also realize that there are times a person just cannot post due to circumstances out of their control and that doesn't bug me). It also reminds me of this saying:
"The true stingy is that who refrains from greeting." - Imam Hussain (AS)
This is the reason why I hold birthdays to be very important - and not just for myself. This is also why I'll take some time to thank everybody for sending me a wish. And to all of those who wished me, once again I thank you from the bottom of my heart. There are very few things I look forward to, and you all made this day extremely special for me. I am truly blessed.

Mistakes

Its been more than a month since I wrote my last post. I've had a very tight schedule to say the least. But I thought I'd get a post in before June finishes...which will be in under an hour.

Earlier this week, I had the following as my 'Quote of the Day':

"As long as the world is turning and spinning, we're gonna be dizzy and we're gonna make mistakes." - Mel Brooks

I don't know what the intention/meaning behind the quote is by Mel Brooks, if any. But it has a deeper meaning that what appears on the surface (or at least in my opinion).

Nobody is perfect. And a lot of the times we learn and gain experiences through making mistakes, whether its through school, at work, or life in general, mistakes. Sometimes we learn the hard way (e.g. when our backs are against the wall, or when we've failed at something). This is also especially true when we're starting a new chapter in our life or facing a new experience (the most notable example that comes to mind is marriage). This is usually where we feel 'dizzy' (i.e. confused, uncertain, etc.). And more often than thought, we'll end up making mistakes.

Its important to remember though that when you make a mistake, its not the end of the world (or at least in most cases). That mistake must be taken as a learning experience; you need to GROW from it. If you don't learn and grow from it, then you are doomed to repeat it. If you do learn and grow from it. And the world will keep turning spinning despite making the mistake; but now, you'll have gained a new life experience. And yes, you'll still continue to make mistakes. But as long as you continue to learn from your mistakes, the more wisdom you'll get and the more you'll limit your future mistakes.

There is a saying that goes "You've made your bed; now lie in it." I'm not a fan of that. My own thought is that, "Just because you've made your bed doesn't mean you can't change it bfore you lie in it." I truly believe this. No matter how great of a mistake you've made, there is a way to correct it. Yes, correcting it may cause a lot of hardships. But having to make more mistakes after an initial one that could have easily been corrected with some courage would probably cause more hardships in the long run.

So to sum it all up: life goes on. Learn from your mistakes, take them as experiences. Correct what can be corrected, and go on with life. Because the world keeps spinning and won't stop for you. And when it does...well that means your time is up lol.